I suggest that we consider making a more significant connection this season in another way...by really listening. Most of us are so busy multi-tasking and checking off items on our to-do lists that we haven't taken time to stop and really connect with others. 

So, commit to really listening, even if it is for just one focused day, to colleagues, friends or clients.  And, don't forget your spouse, children or parents.  And when you do, resist the temptation to jump in and share your opinion.  Not this time. Just listen, focus on the other person and hear what they are saying. Catch yourself before responding with a "yes, but" or a "well, this is what I think about that..." Instead,  simply nod, acknowledge with an "uh huh" or say, "tell me more."

Resist the temptation to share your viewpoint, suggestions and solutions, no matter how difficult that might be.  I must admit that this is particularly hard for me—I do like to share! But I also know that it doesn't pay to pay lip service to listening—for when you do, others will stop sharing and will ultimately stop caring too.